Is the LGBTcommunity more of a "melting pot" than larger society?

Um... to answer quickly, that would be a "hell no."

Gays and lesbians, I think, are more separated that larger society. Sad but true.

There's the "black" LGBTQ community and then there is the "white" LGBTQ community. I mean, I see evidence of it everyday. Example: my girlfriend doesn't like the L-Word because they're white lesbians. One time, she and her friends when to this new gay club only to find that it was something "straight out of the L-Word." Example 2: Though there is a thriving "white" (sorry... just being honest... they are not like me... =( sad but true) LGBT community at my school, I really don't associate with any of the lesbians (who by the way seem like really cool people) for the simple fact other than sexual orientation, I have nothing in common with them. They can sit listening to Melissa Etheridge (forgive me if I misspelled) and be happy for an entire day but I like GOSPEL music (lol) which some of them are against (religion, that is)... or maybe I'm just a weird loner... either way, we don't mix.

Granted, the show The L Word could do a little better to be more inclusive of the entire gay community. I mean, not to go off on a tangent or anything but Tasha is not a really good description of a black stud lesbian... sorry. I mean, she's hella sexy and she could get it ANY day but (and let's not forget about Papi's sexy latina ass)... she ain't like other black studs. And going to a gay club on The L Word is not exactly like going to one in Detroit... but still...

I think it's so dumb that the community is so separated. We are already marginalized in society for our sexual orientations, why divide ourselves even more on the basis of race and/or culture? It doesn't make much sense to me...

I love The L Word... and even though I don't have Showtime, I always catch it on DVD when the season's over cause that's my shit. Even though I don't see lesbian life the way I live it everyday and it's different doesn't mean it's bad.

But I definitely wouldn't complain if they came out with a more... Afro-American centric lesbian show... like Noah's Arc for lesbians... I'll be the first one in line to watch it!

That's my tirade of the night.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Kathy... are you really a lesbian?

So if you're anything like me, you're a huge fan of BET's College Hill Interns. Especially because there is a black lesbian now on the show. But since the airing of the fifth episode, people have been questioning whether or not Kathy is really gay.

So here's what happened, briefly:

All of the roommates were drunk and Kathy told the guys that she is basically on a different playing field as far as sex goes and that nobody is on her level. So her male roommates were all like "prove it." So she lays one of the guys out on the table and starts licking his stomach and neck and stuff. He said it was "cute" but it didn't make him go all crazy and then he turned to tables on her. Now when he was on top of her (honestly, he wasn't doing nothing special) she was visibly aroused and had to remove herself from the situation.

Does the fact that she was aroused mean that she isn't a true lesbian?

Hell no!

Being a lesbian is so much deeper than just sexual acts. So what if she was sexually stimulated by a man? The stuff that he was doing wasn't gender specific and it was something that a woman could have done. It's not like he pulled his dick out and was rubbing it all on her. So my answer is, so what?

Kathy, if you ever see this girl, you are a true lesbian and you're sexy as hell. If I was single I would tell you to get at me, lol.